Archive for October, 2003

Wail…. i can’t remember yesterday!

Oh i HATE it when this happens - i know perfectly well we had a nice and productive day and its completely escaping me! lol! *thinks very hard*

Oh - well i got a lie in, which is always a bonus, and the kids played absolutely beautifully together the whole time. its really strange the way this has suddenly come together, although i do think its very related to the less tv thing. Maybe its their ages too? Either way, its cinderella, peter pan, wizard of oz, mummys and babies etc etc from morning to night. Scruff really joins in - she really has no concept of being smaller than them, she just IS a big girl! The dollies are SO popular now - bless!

Moo went to nursery with less fuss (although everything was poorly, neck, toes, ears, eyes, you name it) but seemed fine at 3pm again. Pud and i did some times tables and the mirror addition - ie 1×2 is 2 but 1+2 is 3 - weirdly she seems to get on better with tables! Her addtion was fab last year but she seems to hate working things out and just guesses wildly - funny girl - i know perfectly well she can do it though cos if she wants to show off she can! lol! We also practised the spellings she picked out to do and worked on sounding out. I really didn’t learn by sounding out and i don’t think Pud likes it either but althoguh i was a much better reader much earlier i always had real trouble with new words and had extremely strange versions of them in my head! I’d like to at least work on improving that for Pud. We also did a couple more Usborne Bible stories, Noahs Ark and Abraham and Sarah - i shall have to poke Sarah and see if she knows any sites with good back up activities for these. I loved bible study at my PNEU - i am sure its why i still really loved RE by A level even thoguh i was not actually religious in any day to day fashion. it was presented really well - i shall have to look up some CM stuff as well.

Then my cousin brought her little boy round (he is 1 today - happy birthday peeps!) and they all played.

Oh yes - in the evening me and pud had tea out and a bridesmaid shoe buying session - very girly! See i remembered in the end! lol!

Today we were out all day - a friends first thing including lunch time school run where for the first time i really noticed getting weird “thats a big child you have there NOT IN SCHOOL!!!!” looks! Very odd! The we went on to our friday fortnightly HE group - they really really love it there. Today they all helped make the Christmas cake for the Christmas party. We will be away for the halloween one at Auntie Annes wedding, which is a shame but hey :~)

Tonight we all sat around with a big vat of beads and lace and made necklaces - Moo made a really beautiful one to match her fairy dress in her two favourite colours - pink and blue. She was SO proud of it - i shall have to see if i can get a photo of her in it tomorrow although we do have a birthday to attend. She is really coming on just now- its definitely a feature of Moo that if she NEEDS to she will go up a step in speech and she has - clearly going to nursery has pushed her into needing a new level of communication. She is expressing herself quite differently - on the way home yesterday she was able to list quite clearly what she does and doesn’t like about nursery in terms of the activities - its not that she didn’t have the ability before, its more like the ability wasn’t required. I guess if mummy can understand then you don’t need to find these things. Suddenly she has foods and colours she likes - she is leaving baby behind very fast… weird - but good.

No comments yet »

We did also have better things happen today…

Which is good! Moo went off to nursery only protesting slightly - i really DON’T know what is going on here - she obviously likes it but is clearly stressed by leaving us in some way. The fake sneezes start at the door and that means she is stressed. But she obviously likes her taxi people so thats not it - so is she unhappy, or worried, or “getting used” or just trying it on? I really don’t know. *Baffled* It completes goes against my ethos to send her when she is saying no, but i can’t work out the reason for the no, nor can i put my finger on anything causing it. If i was picking her up stressed it would stop today - but i am picking up a happy, enlivened, cheerful little soul with lots to say and lots to tell - like i say *baffled!*

Anyway - with Moo gone and Scruff (with whom i had the most adorable morning playing rough and tumbles - we were really good mates today!) asleep, Pud and i got down to some stuff! We got out my book kit and she chose several “library” books - then we sat and read a phonics reader, a seashore flap book, two old testament stories (i feel quite chuffed about this cos i really wanted to do some bible stuff in a non church/no pressure way and didn’t quite know how) looked at the solar system in a mini encyclopedia and then she did a dinosaur dot to dot book, following numbers up to 100 - actually i forgot to say that in the car the other day she suddenly cracked this all on her own and went over and over it till she could think out all the 29-30 39-40 bits without saying “twenty-ten” or whatever by accident (ya boo sucks national curriculum, or that natty curr as i like to call it!) She was really pleased she had done all this and i was chuffed as i seem to have really failed to “do” books with my kids so far. So we decided we will have one afternoon a week just like this. Fab. She also instigated choosing several words from the seashore book to learn to read and write which was a cool idea, so i am going to back her up totally on it - i hate the notion of spelling lists and stuff, but if she wants it - so be it!

This evening, following the demise of the einstein site (wail!) i casually asked her if she wanted to look at a times table book i had (its a nezert one) She did and we did a page of 2x questions set out differently to she is used to, using her abacus - she did them all and could remember all of them up to 4×2 which is as far as i asked her. Then, bless, she took it and her abacus up to bed and eventually called me up to show me she could do 10×2 and this page was “too easy” - weyhey! Maths genius afterall! ;~)

This evening i sat and watched from upstairs while all three were out in the twilight playing on our climbing frame. Moo had her bubbles bottle and was spinning round to produce them and Scruff was bouncing with delight on top of the frame while Pud ran around popping them - they all looked so happy together, it was lovely. They have done so much playing today - Moo and Pud acted out practically the WHOLE of Wizard of Oz i think! lol! Its our panto this year so i think we will HAVE to go! its really great to hear them acting as a unit and doing stuff together - i am really proud of them.

No comments yet »

Awful Bath Chaos…

or… Dreadful Eczema Ferment… Great Horrible Incident….Jerking Kids Lugs…. Most Noisome Ointment….Pretty Queer Rascal… Soap Terribly Unpleasant…. Vile Water Xperience (;~))… Yep Zombie…. okay… i am no Sarah - i admit defeat….i only got the last bit with help! :~D

Think fuming face emoticon

IF you have a child with utterly vile eczema, who has recently had a certain amount of carefully guarded respite from said disgusting itchy torment.. .there are certain things that are a definite no no…. and ONE of them… ONE of them… is that if you go upstairs and put all three children in the bath, you remove the bar of soap from the reach of said children so that no one decides to turn the water into soap soup…..

AND IF…. rage threatens to seep out of fixed grin veneer…. IF you should happen to let this occur, you are expected to revoke all daddy-can-sleep-through-anything behaviour and get up at least 4 of the 5 times said child wakes hysterical with itchy dry skin and DO something about it… rather than sleeping through it while mummy gets up to rub skin and simultaneously change TWO wet beds (7 times i got up last night - SEVEN!!!!!!!!)

And if all this occurs (after 18 months of living with an eczema’y child) the sentence “Is soap bad then????” does somewhat suggest you haven’t been paying attention…

Strop… fume….. eyeballs rolling….

(Actually - it really wasn’t his fault so much - i just wanted an angle for the story!)

No comments yet »

ARGH

I just typed a big blog and it disappeared - snort….

Anyway - the short version is - nursery better if not perfect but had a reassuring chat with the staff member with the AS son - she was helpful, promised to tell me if it was going wrong their end and helped me negotiate a different library book in the bag for Moo which was an issue cos she wanted the same as last week and it had gone to another child. (Besides which, the deal is a new book a week i think and Moos deal was not so much she liked the book as she wanted a repeat performance :~/)

Pud had a lovely afternoon making her very own book, doing webland and describing her dream for me to draw for her.

We all went for a walk and then a £2 a head toys r us trip - except Moo also got bubbles cos she vocalised a want and it doesn’t often happen!

I’m pooped (and cross with blogger!)

No comments yet »

Poor Moo, bad Mummy….

Oh dear - Moo didn’t want to go to nursery today- not sure why, it was possibly sparked by seeing the taxi man in sainsburys just before they were due to pick her up. I sort of thought she would be fine when they got here and got her ready, although she kept saying no in an uncertain sort of way. The taxi arrived and she got to the end of the drive and just started to howl and scream and sob. It was awful. We had friends about to arrive, although she didn’t really know that, and normally i would have chucked everyone in the car and taken her myself to see what happened, but there wasn’t time as they were very close to arriving - i was completely thrown and let them drive away with her howling. I have NEVER done that before :~(( Moo has never ever had anything like that happen. I felt dreadful. The nursery phoned very soon after and said she had arrived and completely settled down and she was fine when i collected her but it was a bit of a shock :~(

Maybe it was just cos we had a funny weekend; Daddy was away and then we visited my sister - we also had a slightly stressful morning tidying up. Either way its upset my confidence a bit. Trouble is, if i hadn’t let her go in the taxi, tomorrow it would have been an issue too, because NOT going in the taxi would have become a routine. We shall have to see what happens tomorrow but its not something i will allow to happen every day anyway - i felt so mean :~(

Anyway - we had a nice time with friends who visited - her boy locked himself in the bathroom and a locksmith had to be called - slightly stressful (although he and his mummy were a DARN sight calmer than i would have been!) but sort of funny after. We all had a nice day - the kids seemed to really like each other :~) (and the mummies do too!)

What else is new - hama is back in vogue, as is pony beading, necklace making, writing and goodness knows what else. Pud made a lovely necklace with alphabet beads and shell beads tonight, very small holes to thread and worked out how to get her name on to the two sides of a shell bit - which meant getting them the right way up and threading her name backwards - there… logic, motor skills, forward planning and design all ticked for today!!!! Need to come up with a plan for tomorrow - heraldry maybe and folk medicine - i think that would be fun :~)

Comments (18) »

Reaping Benefits

Not a lot to report in a way cos i have been poorly and we haven’t “done” much - but that doesn’t mean not a lot has been done - if you follow me! Moo has done 4 days at nursery this week and will probably continue on like that now - means we can all go to an HE group on a friday together. She seems happy - tired but happy - they have a new sensory garden there and she apparently loves it - is just outside all the time - weird really cos she doesn’t like our garden much, althoguh lately she and Pud have been doing Peter Pan out there a fair bit. Its a very sheltered garden and i think it was just TOO hot in the summer - they seem to prefer cool somehow. Its so funny, Moo is a natural second sibling - if its Peter pan she is Pan to Puds Wendy, she prefers being Stitch to Lilo, Boots to Dora, Max to Ruby (lots of acting out here you notice!) - i think she has a quirky sidekick fetish! Somehow i suspect Scruff will be fighting Pud for the leading lady role - she is such a monkey!

So - there has been lots of that going on and Pud has been loving her books and her dolls and goodness knows what else - she has been writing lots and listening to stories, building lego, drawing (a beautiful rose today, auntie kate showed her how and she really tried to do as she was shown). She is very excited about being a flower girl at the end of the month and also she has been given the chance to do a tiny 30 second programme in the big girls skating gala at christmas - to the tune of willo the wisp! AW! I shall cry….

Moo brings a library book home once a week now and Pud was a bit upset about not having one too - so we have instigated a system - she has a bag and once a week she is choosing a book from my Usborne/Barefoot kit to keep and look at - she seems happy with that.

I think we will go out tomorrow and have a good play somewhere for a change - it is time!

No comments yet »

Something to put in your pipe and smoke…

Someone on the Mudpud list posted the link to this newspaper article this week - i have included the link but in the end it will disappear so i have snipped out the bits that spoke most strongly to me. Its an incredibly strong and positive article though. For anyone who doubts HE, or wants to believe it must fail, its worth a read - because its effectively about an HE approach in school, a system similar to one i learned in for 8 years, and its working. (As we who know, knew it would!)

The Globe and Mail: “Anne Cassidy’s Grade 5-6 class has just started a unit on urban studies. But none of them knows it.

Last week, they were camping at a wilderness park in Ontario for three days, lugging their water from a pump and cooking in the great outdoors. Now that they’re back, they are brainstorming about what makes a city: What would it take to build one in the place where they camped?

The classroom is alive with voices. One boy is sitting up on the table, the better to make his points to the person who is writing down ideas on a poster-sized sheet of paper. Another is drawing out his ideas, because that’s the way he explains best.

They’ll have to have food in their city, one of the groups remarks. And clothing to buy. But where will that come from? Who will make it and how will they be paid? What forms of energy will they need? How will they get them? What about government? Who gets to make decisions, and how are they chosen?

There is no script here at the Institute of Child Study’s laboratory school on Walmer Road in downtown Toronto. No government-mandated questions on a set topic, as has been the trend in education nearly everywhere in the past decade. The children are constructing their own curriculum, being guided by their teacher but not being spoon-fed.

This is the hidden curriculum, the one no government can engineer, about spontaneity, discovery, intellectual agility, problem solving, creative thought. As for the official curriculum, Ms. Cassidy confides later that the children are actually digging into units on government, energy, community and current affairs. For the creative-writing unit, she says, she might ask them to write a story based in a water-treatment plant like the one they’ll see in a later field trip.

The joke around here is that the children are having so much fun, they don’t realize they’re learning.

‘It’s not impossible,’ said Elizabeth Morley, principal of the independent school that is run by the University of Toronto’s Ontario Institute for Studies in Education. Its tuition is over $7,000 and the waiting list is 1,000 children long. ‘If people want this, this is what they do. It really happens.’” (snip)

The “slow schooling” movement runs directly counter to those who believe children should be filled up with information, the more quickly the better. Slow, in this case, means savouring information instead of swallowing it whole, digesting it instead of regurgitating it before its intrinsic nourishment can make itself felt. Slow, as in exploring something deeply and thoroughly, learning how to learn, how to ask questions, how to understand, how to apply that understanding to other areas of study. (snip)

he Grade 4 teacher at the laboratory school, Richard Messina, recalled how passive his students were in the public-school classrooms where he used to teach. And if the principal should happen to enter, he said, each student needed to be seated, quiet and on the same page as everyone else.

He chuckled, savouring the difference at the laboratory school.

“Our end point is not a test. It’s not even a product,” said Mr. Messina. “It’s knowledge. (snip)

The problem, said Prof. Levin, is that schools can’t intensify forever. Putting too much pressure on them can suck the joy out of learning, a phenomenon he sees happening all over the world. And expecting children to learn without heart doesn’t work: “The fallout is that we’re getting less value out of the education system than we could,” he said. “I’m not advocating that the pressure come off, just that there be a balance of pressure and support.”

There is plenty of evidence to support that view, much of it from the arena of science, which increasingly shows that children who are stuffed full of factoids and expected to perform don’t do as well as children who are allowed to play. By a dreadful irony, trying to make your child smarter can backfire. (snip)

Prof. Hirsh-Pasek and some colleagues tested 120 children to see whether preschools with more academic curricula produced smarter, happier and more creative children. Initially, the children who had been drilled in letters and numbers knew more at age 5 than the group that had focused on playing. But by the time they were 6, that gap had vanished.

What didn’t go away, though, was the finding that the children who had gone to the academic preschool were less creative and less enthusiastic about learning. “Factors such as self-awareness, self-discipline, empathy and understanding others are all part of being truly smart and successful,” they write.

Mainstream educational ideas, said Prof. Hirsh-Pasek, are at odds with the science as it’s understood. The fallout is that young children in heavy-duty academic drilling are less settled, more aggressive, more perfectionist, more apt to believe that there is only one right answer. “What we’re doing is setting ourselves up to have fact-finders, not creative thinkers,” she said. (snip)

The Japanese, long renowned for their awesome test scores and cram-all-night-style of learning, have also changed tack. Now, the Japanese emphasis is on giving students more choice, less structure, shorter school hours and more slow time to think. Government officials call it the “sunshine” approach to education.

“Our current system, just telling kids to study, study, study, has been a failure,” one official told The New York Times. He added that students were exhausted, lacked initiative, and found creativity an alien concept. (snip)

Back at the laboratory school in Toronto, several of the teachers are musing about how others could make a school like theirs. They’ve had visitors from Japan, The Netherlands, Brazil and many other countries, but rarely from Canada, even though the school is partly funded as a research facility.

They chuckle about standardized testing. At some points in the nine years they have the same groups of children (from nursery school until the end of Grade 6), they have to introduce them to the concept, even though they believe standardized tests do not measure anything critically important.

And when the lab-school children do write the Canadian Test of Basic Skills, a chestnut in the standards arsenal, they routinely score in the 94th to 99th percentiles. In math, it’s invariably the 99th. Many go on to capture scholarships and excel at the best universities in the world, including some of the Ivy Leagues in the U.S.

“We’re not harming them by this approach,” Principal Morley says, smiling broadly.

Mr. Holt contends that “the supreme irony of the slow school is that precisely because it provides the intellectual nourishment students need . . . good test results follow. Success, like happiness, is best pursued obliquely.” (snip)

Comments (1) »