Well. One thing has been cleared up a bit today anyway. I spoke to the SENCO at the nursery Moo has a place at today about the amountr of time she will go for - basically they have changed a lot since we turned down a place there for Fran - now its very much more “you have 5 afternoons, you use what you want”. Which is a major relief cos it means i can “work up” to 5 pms and if we never get there then that is just fine.

I think Moo needs this - its an excellent place and i think it will bridge a gap its going to be hard for me to fill while getting Pud enough attention too - i am happy to try it now. But reception will still be a no-no. No way :~)